The tradie mentor you wish you knew sooner

Your trusted tradie ear and old man wisdom that’s there when you need it. And it starts with one question: How you going?

Trade Industry Mentor
30+ Years Experience
Chippy Turned Builder

Because only a tradie gets a tradie

Your trade is simple. But life, people and everything else? That’s where it gets hard. And sometimes you feel like you’re failing. Fast.

After 42 years (and growing) in building and construction, I get it. And now, I’m lending you my ear, knowledge and experience. All learnt from my own tradie journey.

No matter how long you’ve been in the trade, sometimes you just need someone’s ear

A trusted ear for the big (and small) questions

Trade questions. Conflict and communication queries. Trying to balance life and work. I’ve heard and answered it all over these last 40 years, or have asked myself the same questions.

And if I don’t know the answer? I’ll know someone who will.

Business is tough and I’m struggling. Where do I go next?
This challenge is a never-ending brick wall. How do I get over it?
I can’t stand conflict. But how do I resolve the issue without it?
I need to communicate better with my clients and team. But how?
I can’t find the right balance of work, home and life. Is there a way to have it all?
I want advice but coaching’s not for me. Is there someone I can just talk to?
I’ve learnt the tools but not the people side. Who can teach me that?
I’d love to just bounce ideas off someone with experience. But who do I ask?

Real people, real feedback

On the fence about all this? Here’s some real tradies and their stories.

I’ve known Dave for over 40 years – not only as a friend, but as a builder and a mentor.

David is a highly knowledgeable and experienced professional with more than four decades in the building industry. He is also an exceptional communicator, with a natural ability to connect with people at all levels. Dave is personable, easy to talk to, and well respected throughout the industry.


I highly recommend attending any of Dave’s talks, courses, or presentations. When you attend these sessions, you will not only learn a great deal from his experience, but you will also build lasting, ongoing friendships with others in the industry – all while having a lot of fun along the way.

Steven, director of Wade Builders in Melbourne

Steve

Wade Builders

I’ve known David for 16 years – 11 as my boss and the last 5 as a mentor and great mate. Over his 35+ years in the industry, he’s gained a huge amount of experience and genuinely wants to see other builders succeed.

Starting out as a young builder, the support I got from David made a massive difference and still does to this day. Building can be competitive and lonely at times – especially when you’re quoting, managing trades, clients and architects all at once. There’s no manual for it. David understands that pressure because he’s lived it, and he gives honest, practical advice that you can understand and use.


He’s passionate about backing builders and lifting the standard of the industry, and I’m genuinely grateful for the role he’s played in my journey this far.


If you’re a builder looking for genuine guidance from someone who’s walked the path and truly cares, I couldn’t recommend David more highly
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Chris, director of Caccon in Melbourne

Chris

Caccon

From the very first conversation, speaking with David was a breath of fresh air. It was so refreshing to connect with another builder who didn’t view me as competition, but instead showed a genuine interest in me and my building business.

Since that initial call, David has consistently been an invaluable sounding board. When I was faced with a challenging client situation, he provided practical, real-world advice that helped me resolve the issue quickly and confidently. This was a stark contrast to my experience with one of the so-called “builder coaches,” whose cookie-cutter approaches offered little in the way of personalised guidance.

David’s support has made a positive difference. Whether you’re a builder with ten months’ experience or ten years in the industry, this game never gets any easier – and having someone experienced and impartial to turn to is incredibly valuable.

I wouldn’t hesitate to recommend David to anyone seeking an experienced, reliable, and trustworthy mentor. I’m confident others will have the same positive experience I’ve had.

Ben, director of Ben Thomas Builder in Melbourne

Ben

Ben Thomas Builder

Let’s start with a simple coffee and chat

Getting support doesn’t have to be a big deal. You tell me where you’ll be on a job, and I’ll find us a coffee shop nearby. Then, we’ll just chat. That’s it.

From a coffee check in to a full community of tradies. You’re never alone.

Whether it’s a chat, you want a trade industry mentor, or to connect with other tradies that ‘just get it’, you choose how and when we work together.

Melbourne tradie having coffee catchup with business coach in Melbourne

Tradie coffee check in

For when you just need a trusted ear. You book a time. We meet. We talk over coffee. About what, where, when and how often is up to you.

Tradie mentor in Melbourne giving business advice to tradie

Monthly mentoring

When you need a mentor and advice to get where you want to go. Each month, we check and work through a challenge, goal, or longer term outcome. All tailored to your specific situation.

Business coach for tradies in Melbourne

Builders Mental Day Out

Connect and meet other tradies, business owners and industry connections on the same journey as you. It’s an event by tradies, for tradies. Conversations, good food, good company.

A convesation can make a difference

Sometimes having someone just listen and get it matters. Whether it’s a bad day, tricky situation, or life is pulling you inside out, you’ve got my ear. As long as you need it.

Tap into 40+ years of trade experience
Talk to a tradie who’s still active in the industry
Learn how to create work, home and life balance
Improve your communication, management and people skills
Get personalised guidance and actionable advice
Bounce around new ideas with a friendly ear
Get connected to new industry and trade connections you need
Join a community of tradies just like you

Not sure where to begin? Start with a simple chat

Chat

Book a coffee chat with me: It’s just as it sounds. A coffee. A conversation. That’s it.

Meet

We check-in weekly, monthly – whatever works for you: It’s all in your hands.

Connect

Get connected with other tradies in our Builders Mental Day Out community.

Builders Mental Day Out

What started as a couple of us builders needing a mental day off – to chat, laugh and just get it out – has grown into a community of like-minded tradies. There when you need someone that just gets it. No questions asked. Together we are stronger.

  • Casual dinner events
  • Open to tradies, builders — anyone in industry
  • Make connections and grow your support network

Join the next Builders Mental Day Out

Register to be added to our Builders Mental Day Out invitation list. Open to anyone in the building and trade industry, it’s a great way to connect and chat with others in the field.

I’m just an old tradie going back to where my journey began

When I turned up on day one of my tradie career, little did I know I was also starting my life-long people apprenticeship. Absorbing all I could, I learnt from anyone that would give me the time of day. Now, I’m giving back what was given to me: Helping other tradies master people, life, business and all that goes with it.

  • 40+ years in building and construction
  • 35+ years as a business owner
  • 20+ years mentoring tradies

David Alexandrakis

Frequently asked questions about mentoring services

If that’s what you’re looking for, that isn’t me. I’m not a building or business coach, just a trusted tradie ear and industry mentor. You get me, all my knowledge, my years of experience, industry connections – real advice, based on real business owner experience and from a real tradie who’s been at it for 30+ years.

How we work together is completely up to you, and I’m not going to push you into a mentoring program if it’s not for you. Sometimes, a coffee chat is all you need. Sometimes, you need more and having a mentor by your side is exactly what you want. You choose, we make it happen.

I’m not a business coach, but what I will share is my own experience and knowledge as well as connect you with who you need on your business journey. All my 20+ years as a business owner are yours to tap into.

No matter where you are on your tradie journey, you’ve got my ear. Starting out? We can talk about where you want to go, how to get there and what you need along the way. Want advice? From communicating better on site, how to improve collaboration with other tradies, or just questions about the industry. If I know it, I’ll share it.

Book a coffee check-in with David